At one time or another we have all experienced the failure of a relationship. Sometimes it is the woman who are the ones feeling hurt and rejected, and sometimes it is the woman who did the rejecting. So what if it you were the one rejected and now you want to know how to get your ex boyfriend back? I think you should remember the reason that your boyfriend took off in the first place. If you really want him back you will have to change some things, especially those that he didn’t appreciate in the first place. Keep in mind that being kind, lending an ear and showing interest in his favorite past times can take you a long way back into his graces. Just remember though that this won’t exactly be easy and it may take a long time. If you really want him back, your hard work will pay off in the end.